First off I'd like to say that not a single person here is the only one afraid to voice their opinion...at least people think you have one. Another thing is that yes while bashing something is completley rude and hurtful it's definitley not fun to hear about the same thing you don't like all the time. Along the lines of negative feelings towards things if you think it'll cause conflict try to keep it to yourself unless you know you have someone to talk to who would respect you enough to comfort you even if they disagree. after reading your guys blog I've realized I'm jealous. You guys have so much that close friends can only have and while I have close friends I've achieved nothing like the bond you guys have. You guys have your sort of support group to help with problems. I have... I don't know. I never could go to my guy friends about much just didn't seem right and I used to have Terra as a sort of help with my problems. Unfortunatley I've falling away from my close guy firends. I now have only have you guys. Over time I've become closer to the group of friends you guys have but I 'm not quite an emotional part of it and don't quite know if I will ever be. Anyways I don't want you guys pitying me or anything I just wish I had your guys bond...lord knows I do all the time....
P.s. I never gay bash!!!! Just because I get a little annoyed at it is cause people all the damn time are like oh you'll cheat on Taylor with (who cares just some guy). One it hurts because I'm not gay and because the the fact that people joke around about stuff like that hurts. I have lots of insequrities. Also It's because people talk about that all the damn time. Anyways I love you all and I honestly I don,t know......
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Hey Tim. It's easy to understand how hard it must be to see us so close when you're having issues with your friends right now. I think that it's pretty much a fact of life that girls have closer friendships than guys because we aren't as afraid to show weakness, or let our feelings be known. Because of that ability, we get to know each other better and therefore become closer.
You seem to be one of those few guys that don't mind to let out what their feeling, and that's a really good thing. Don't think that it's not. It's just that most of your guy friends won't be that way, and therefore, you're going to feel as though you're not very close, even if, from their point of view, you are.
My advice; Make an effort to hang out with your guy friends more. As for the emotional stuff that would bother your other friends, we phunk sisters are here to lend an ear, k?
A quote that I read the other day: "When it seems the world has turned it's back on you, turn around. Sometimes, you may have accidentily turned your back on it."
I don't know if that's true half the time, but it sure seems like it's true for me. Maybe it'll help you too if you look at it that way. Remeber, even if it doesn't seem like it, we're here for you!
~Laura
P.S. The leader of your fanclub was looking over my shoulder as I read this, and he's worried about you. Expect some random hugs from sixth graders. ;)
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